When two people meet, they don't know how their life may change. The more they chat and get to know each other, the less there is to say. There comes a time in this journey when words alone are not enough. Activities, fun and games, outings must enter into the equation... and if this is successful, a true friendship is created. Friendship, companionship, love need the physical experience of doing things together. Then the online relationship is more real. So it is true that you and me "take over some of our individual life time to give to the other!" Any doubt about this reality must be set aside if we truly want each other in the mix of our individual commitments. The key to all this, as a wise man once said, is :'moderato'!